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Same-sex relationship laws still lagging: Kirby

Posted October 16, 2008 10:00:00
Updated October 16, 2008 10:19:00

Justice Michael Kirby ... 'same-sex relationships can only be registered, rather like a dog or busker's licence'

Justice Michael Kirby ... 'same-sex relationships can only be registered, rather like a dog or busker's licence' (AAP: Sergio Dionisio)

High Court Judge Michael Kirby says despite moves to amend discrimination in a number of federal laws, same-sex relationships have been left behind.

Delivering the Rights Australia inaugural John Marsden lecture in Sydney last night, Justice Kirby said denying homosexuals the civil status of marriage was discriminatory.

He said that while many other countries had adopted marriage or civil union laws to protect the civic rights of same-sex couples, Australia lagged behind.

"In Australia, legislation is presently before the Federal Parliament to rectify the discriminatory provisions in a large collection of federal laws," he said in his speech.

"However, relationship measures lag behind."

Justice Kirby said even civil unions seemed a bridge too far.

"The relationships of same-sex couples can only be registered, rather like a dog or busker's licence," the openly gay judge said.

"I hope that fellow citizens of goodwill who think upon this will not be surprised if many homosexual people in loving relationships say politely to this differentiation: 'Thank you, but no thank you'."

Justice Kirby said the debate on recognition for same-sex unions would continue in Australia.

"The direction of history, at least in countries like our own, seems to be in favour of the abiding principle of the equality of citizens of all ages, races, colours, creeds and sexualities," he said.

Marsden

Mr Marsden, a controversial figure who was also open about his homosexuality, was president of the NSW Law Society and the NSW Council of Civil Liberties during his career.

In 1994, he became the subject of paedophilia allegations aired under privilege in the NSW Parliament, but the Director of Public Prosecutions found insufficient evidence to support the claims.

Mr Marsden then sued commercial television station Channel Seven after its Today Tonight and Witness current affairs programs aired similar allegations.

He eventually won what became Australia's longest-running defamation case, but it took a toll on his health.

He died in 2006.

Justice Kirby said Mr Marsden was a considerable achiever, although not without flaws.

"He was courageous and fought tenaciously for civic equality in Australia," he said.

"That is why the lecture has been named after him."

Other criticisms

Justice Kirby also used the lecture to criticise sodomy laws, which still exist in more than 30 Commonwealth countries including Zimbabwe.

He said he had been invited to speak on that topic at the 2009 Commonwealth Law Conference in Hong Kong.

"If John Marsden were here, he would be urging us all to lift our voices to tackle this relic of colonialism which, like the death penalty, persists in many Commonwealth countries, supposedly bound together by mutual respect for human rights," he said.

"Whereas in some countries the criminal laws have been repealed and reformed, the root cause for the animosity and hostility to homosexual people remains the teachings of religious leaders.

"The pain that John Marsden felt over the teachings of his church are translated in many countries, including sometimes our own, into violence, blackmail, hatred, stigma and discrimination."

Justice Kirby retires from the High Court next March.

- AAP

Tags: community-and-society, gays-and-lesbians, human-interest, people, law-crime-and-justice, judges-and-legal-professionals, laws, australia, nsw, sydney-2000

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  • coloru:

    16 Oct 2008 10:34:46am

    rather than looking who has the right to do this or that... we can simply look at who does not have the right to restrict others from choosing their way of life.

    Im not especially interested in the gay cause, Im interested in the cause of people in privileged positions who believe they have a greater ability to decide for someone else what is best. I think we would agree that neither politicians nor clergymen nor journalists are deserving of power over an individual more than that individual him/herself. Laws which provide for social restrictions of freedom are examples of this abuse of privilege and suggest that the law maker is somehow better positioned to decide what is best for an adult than the individual. Law makers and supporters in this case operate only under the age old premace of Witchhunt and contribute nothing of value to a society.

    Congrats to Kirby for continuing to pursue his sensible approach to change. Getting religion and dogma out of Australian laws should have been completed decades ago - we are clearly slow learners.

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      • Zac:

        16 Oct 2008 10:50:59am

        Yes.. we are clearly slow learners. I have hope that without the dogma of Howard, progress can be achieved moreso... I have hope...

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          • Wizfiz:

            16 Oct 2008 12:25:55pm

            I am all for gay couples living together and committing themselves to each other. I believe that they should be given the same respect and opportunities as any hetro couple.

            I do not believe that denying gay couples 'marriage' is discriminatory. I believe in this respect a minority of people have twisted and hijacked the terms of 'equality' and 'rights' so that they appeal to a broader base. Anyone who then disagrees is branded a right wing religous nutter or a homophobe. I believe using these terms to brand anyone who disagrees with their cause highly discriminatory!

            Marriage is between a man and a woman, it always has been. If they want a commitment ceremony, that's great. But marriage is between a woman and a man and it should remain so.

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              • chalkie:

                16 Oct 2008 12:32:53pm

                so your entire argument is over a definition as defined by tradition? Words change with time to meet social norms as they evolve: this is a futile definitional argument.

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              • Trevor:

                16 Oct 2008 1:07:34pm

                So should i say yes or no to that as the meaning may have changed! Some meanings change but only with the consent of society! And some stay the same for good reason!

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              • Andrew:

                16 Oct 2008 12:59:25pm

                Why is it people fear the definition of marriage changing from "one man and one woman only"? Do you love your spouse any less because of what some other couple calls themselves?

                How two people choose to define their relationship has nothing to do with anyone else.

                If gay people want to be able to marry then let them. If any heterosexual feels that takes something special away then perhaps it is time that person takes a long look at what is happening in their own life.

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      • drew:

        16 Oct 2008 10:51:45am

        The state of Australia's same sex laws are a disgrace and shame on soceity.

        let's move forward. surely a person's sexuality is not something to discriminate on.

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          • Glenn:

            16 Oct 2008 1:18:18pm

            We should respect each other's sexuality. We are just being ourselves. Let's not hide our real identity like refugees do. I am a Filipino good-looking discreet male and I am open to everyone. This should be respected by anyone. This is me.

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  • Hope 4 Progression:

    16 Oct 2008 10:38:35am

    As a secular nation- and a nation that respects the rights and well-being of all its' people- it's really an embarrassment that Australia is where it is in regards to this issue, amongst others... As we know, the previous Liberal government did play a large role in social policy stagnation. That's more than obvious, and blatantly true!

    I pose this question to ALL forward thinking, logical, NON-superstitious/religious Aussies: 'Do you care for the basic rights and well-being of your fellow Aussies?' A simple yes, without having to agree emphatically, is enough to move us forward and to make us SO MUCH BETTER! A simply yes.. without qualification.

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      • teen:

        16 Oct 2008 11:36:13am

        It is an extremely discriminatory and narrow-minded view to presume that "religious Aussies" do not care for "the basic rights and well-being" of fellow Aussies. I think you will find that Christians believe in the call of Jesus to love everyone and protect the rights of all, especially those who are marginalised in society.

        However, why does "moving forward" have to mean giving same-sex couples the right to be united in a Christian marriage? You talk about Australia being a "secular nation", so why should there be a desire to engage in what is a strictly Christian ceremony (i.e. marriage)? The Bible is clear on what constitutes a marriage in the eyes of God (i.e. union between a man and a woman). I am not saying same-sex couples shouldn't be entitled to the same legal rights, protection, and equity in society, but that this should be achieved through a non-Christian ceremony.

        I recognise that there are many examples of non-Christian couples who still get married in a Christian ceremony, and I think that the same principle should apply to them as to same-sex couples. I just don't see why a marriage in a Church can't be recognised for what it is - a Christian ceremony that finds its origins way back in Genesis 2.

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          • Zac:

            16 Oct 2008 12:16:46pm

            The whole point to the above article ( and the above response to the article) is recognition of same-sex civil unions! Nowhere has 'church/Christian marriage' been mentioned, or mosque/ Islamic marriage, or synagogue/Jewish marriage, etc etc etc..)

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          • Qu0kka:

            16 Oct 2008 12:23:37pm

            What makes you feel that marriage is strictly owned by Christianity? Understood that changes may affect religious unions - who knows? I couldn't really care any less about that aspect, but at the root of this is that our government and laws do not recognise marriages in these circumstances. Nobody has the right to deny any minority this. The concept of marriage simply is not owned by Christianity, Islam, or otherwise...indeed it has been around since before those religions came to be!

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          • thelonenut:

            16 Oct 2008 12:26:01pm

            "Marriage" is not a "strictly Christian ceremony". Humankind has been engaging in forms of "marriage" since we came out of the Caves. Hundreds of religions predate Christianity, and each and every one of them had an eqivalent ceremony which we now refer to as "marriage".

            And, stating the obvious, men have liked men and women have lusted after other women ever since Time began -

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          • Drew:

            16 Oct 2008 12:27:10pm

            Teen, you are missing a vital point here - marriage is not simply a religious ceremony but a legal status. I would be happy for same-sex unions to take place outside religious organisations such as the christian church but call it marriage otherwise you continue to discriminate. Marriage is not simply a religious-based institution but a legal entity.
            If you really do believe in equality though you should allow same-sex unions to occur in churches as well otherwise - if your jesus really does love everyone as you say then he wont mind. Let him judge - not you

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          • Neil H:

            16 Oct 2008 12:39:26pm

            So, "teen", by your definition, my legal, CIVIL marriage to my beautiful wife is a "Christian marriage". I don't think so, mate.

            The church can define marriage to be whatever they want, but the simple truth is that the vast, vast majority of Australians getting married today have absolutely nothing to do with any church, religion, or any other similar notions.

            I agree with Justice Kirby. Marriage should be a civil, legal issue between two people who love each other, and want to spend their lives together, with no regard to "ages, races, colours, creeds and sexualities".
            Neil

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      • teen:

        16 Oct 2008 12:11:03pm

        It is an extremely discriminatory and narrow-minded view to presume that "religious Aussies" do not care for "the basic rights and well-being" of fellow Aussies. I think you will find that Christians believe in the call of Jesus to love everyone and protect the rights of all, especially those who are marginalised in society.
        However, why does "moving forward" have to mean giving same-sex couples the right to be united in a Christian marriage? You talk about Australia being a "secular nation", so why should there be a desire to engage in what is a strictly Christian ceremony (i.e. marriage). The Bible is clear on what constitutes a marriage in the eyes of God (i.e. union between a man and a woman). I am not saying same-sex couples shouldn't be entitled to the same legal rights, protection, and equity in society, but that this should be achieved through a non-Christian ceremony.
        I recognise that there are many examples of non-Christian couples who still get married in a Christian ceremony, and I think that the same principle should apply to them as to same-sex couples. I just don't see why a marriage in a church can't be recognised for what it is - a Christian ceremony designed by God that finds its origins way back in Genesis 2.

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          • angus:

            16 Oct 2008 1:44:20pm

            yeah but mate most ppl dont care about what God says, only Christians do. you cant force Christian values onto ppl who dont care about them. most church ppl need to get a dose of reality and what goes on in 'the real world' instead of pretending they do.

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      • Braz:

        16 Oct 2008 1:12:14pm

        The Labor party does not support homosexual marriage either, even though its leader sits on the fence post on the issue.

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  • amme:

    16 Oct 2008 10:47:44am

    Good on you Justice Kirby for speaking out on my behalf about these antiquated and discrimatory laws. Justice Kirby has been the subject of a horrible smear campaign himself during the Howard years when he dared to have an opinion different to that of the government of the day. It is good to see that incident has not dampened his enthusiasm and he is still out fighting for justice against discrimatory and exclusionist laws. I would love my relationship to be recognised and valued by the community i live in and i should have the right to love whomever i choose without the rubbish that currently goes with those choices.

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  • Beren:

    16 Oct 2008 10:48:22am

    Yep, I agree. Equality, or Equalisim has no room for discrimination that is based on individual religious or belief.

    True Equality would mean I can marry a same sex partner and religious folks can believe what they want and practice their religion freely.

    But we don't have True Equality in Australia. Because I Cannot Marry my Partner of choice, I cannot have a ceremony which in the eye's of my peers would solemnise my relationship. Crickey, i dont tell people how to live their lives, no one else should be able to do so to me, and yet it is a fact of life here in Australia.

    Australia, the Discriminating Country... what a joke. What ever happened to giving people a fair go. Gee I bet if people started discriminating against christians for being christians here in Australia thier would be an outcry of concern over civic freedom.

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      • Defender:

        16 Oct 2008 11:13:42am

        Before you start criticising Christianity for not condoning homosexuality, how about you go down to the Lakemba Mosque and ask what Islam's view is on homosexuality. Next time you hassle Christians about it, go and hassle your local Muslim too. Just google fatwas about homosexuality and you'll find it is forbidden in Islam.

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          • Green:

            16 Oct 2008 11:43:40am

            I think the point is that religion in general fosters discriminatory attitudes towards some members of society. However, those who practice those religions are frequently the first to jump and down when they feel that they are themselves being discriminated against on the basis of their religious beliefs.

            Our laws are secular, and as such they should be changed to cease discriminating against homosexual couples.

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          • Zac:

            16 Oct 2008 12:05:24pm

            You must know as much as the next person, and if not.. well.. I can enlighten you! Christ, the religion on which Christianity is based, had taught..

            'Love your brother/ sister (ie.. fellow man/woman) as you'd love yourself'

            'He who is without sin can cast the first stone'

            Christian fundamentalists.. (and there are many!) resort to Old Testament scripture.. Weird stuff, that's approx. 5 thousand years old! This scripture, however, has made many Christians persecute and kill gays as it is 'God's word'.. What's one of the most pressing commandments, though...? Exactly, thou shalt not kill!'

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          • thelonenut:

            16 Oct 2008 12:10:46pm

            A Big fat Red Herring , Defender. What Islam feesl is utterly irrelevant to this discussion, bringing it up is clutching at straws. Australia is a overwhelmingly Christian country.. any and all blame for our backwardness, superstition and plain orneriness ( in the context of the above discussion ) - lies squarely at the feet of the Christian religion.

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  • Tom:

    16 Oct 2008 10:49:05am

    It's disappointing but it doesn't look like this discrimination against Gay and Lesbians will be rectified anytime soon with Kevin Rudd being a conservative Christian and all.

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      • Taiabada:

        16 Oct 2008 11:10:47am

        Tom, let's hope he gets pushed on this by a more 'liberal' minded Malcolm Turnbull who I believe is for such law change. In Australia's 21st century voting population the opposition leader would gain a lot of brownie points.

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          • John:

            16 Oct 2008 12:15:17pm

            Malcolm Turnbull is equally opposed to same sex marriage as Kevin Rudd, and has stated he has the same view of "gay rights" as Dr Nelson, and will maintain the current Liberal Party policy.

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  • Zac:

    16 Oct 2008 10:49:31am

    Are we really so discriminatory as a nation, whether that be homophobic, racist or sexist? As an Australian in the current age, I tend to think that we are. It's sad. I think that a society is influenced by its' leaders, as a child is influenced by its' parents or its' teachers. I know that our leaders over the last generation have certainly been lacking, and have certainly shown to be discriminatory! I hope that our current leaders can show us otherwise..

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  • benmeover:

    16 Oct 2008 10:50:47am

    ...left behind is exactly where they should be....

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      • Tom:

        16 Oct 2008 11:06:22am

        In the past is where you are.

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          • Jon:

            16 Oct 2008 11:26:46am

            With your dismissive remark you are supporting and encouraging a useless antisocial amoral lifestyle.

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              • Zac:

                16 Oct 2008 12:00:24pm

                It's not a style of living.. and if you seriously consider it useless and amoral, you're truly unwell in some way or other. You should try and address the real questions here.. "Why do I hate them as much as I do?" They are as 'normal' as any other person, if not moreso at times!
                It's been shown, time and again, that gays can contribute to society as much as anyone else.. again if not more! Hence ask yourself once again.. "They can do anything, like anyone- so why do I think the way that I do?"

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      • Zac:

        16 Oct 2008 11:07:57am

        It's sad to me that you harbour this dislike, or fear, or hate even. I know that there are many others like you. I understand that it's all so human, yet for whatever reason you'd prefer to put down another person on the basis of their sexual orientation rather than opt for acceptance.. Sexuality doesn't have anything to do with CHOICE.. Science tells us (& has been showing us for AGES..) that it's an unavoidable orientation! It's the path that that person MUST take! Anything else would be a lie!

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          • Jon:

            16 Oct 2008 11:37:00am

            You are simplistic. Homosexual practice (NB: practice) is the result of a genetic inclination, social encouragement and spiritual bankruptcy.

            And those who say it should be accepted or tolerated are abandoning these people to this useless antisocial and immoral practice, and are not supporting them in the same way that other behavioral addicts are supported. Gambling addicts, and drug addicts are support and encouraged to overcome their addiction. They have genetic, social and spiritual reasons for their behaviour. Why won't you support homosexual practictioners in the same way. Why won't you support the courage and backbone needed in these people instead of encouraging cowardice and denial.

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              • Zac:

                16 Oct 2008 12:29:36pm

                If you truly consider being gay is akin to having an addiction, or being spiritually bankrupt, then I can see you for what you are.. Social encouragement was non-existant for generations, lifetimes even, but gays have always existed! They shall continue to exist, as it's natures way! Despite the violence, despite the hatred, and despite the dogma! I have met a great many 'spiritually bankrupt' heterosexuals, who look upon sexuality as the greatest of evils, yet sanction criminal, vile wars, killings and the like!

                I suspect you're stuggling, Sir.. Struggling with a great deal!

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          • Steve:

            16 Oct 2008 11:51:35am

            There are so many studies that fly in the face of that statement, also "scientific". But alas people will always have a bias towards what they want to believe.
            On another note,if you are gay, then why wouldn't you want to be gay by choice anyway? Rather than "poor me, I was born this way".

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              • Zac:

                16 Oct 2008 12:23:45pm

                I am gay, and I'm happy to be gay, as there isn't any other choice. You are straight.. ( I presume) and you're happy to be just that, as there isn't any other choice. One is caucasian, and is happy to be just that, as there isn't any other choice.. etc etc etc...

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  • dean:

    16 Oct 2008 10:57:12am

    Justice Kirby is a welcome voice of reason on the
    subject of same sex relations. Same sex
    couples are entitled to equal rights, and if
    Australia is to become a progressive nation,
    then it is vital that we put an end to all
    forms of social discrimination.

    Heterosexual couples don't think twice about public
    displays of affection, yet same sex couples are scorned
    upon for similar displays and face violent opposition for simply
    holding hands in the street.

    It's time that the Australian Government and the public
    put an end to this inequality. Afterall, I am, you are, we are Australians.

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      • Jon:

        16 Oct 2008 11:40:20am

        Justice Kirby is the voice of anti-reason, self-delusion, pretense and religious imperialism with regard to homosexual practice. He has no claim on any welcome or admiration, only on pity and offence.

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          • dean:

            16 Oct 2008 12:42:29pm

            Since when were human rights issues a religious
            matter? This has nothing to do with religion and everything
            to do with equality. Justice Kirby is simply a man, Jesus
            was also simply a man. The bible is simply a text, the 3 bears is
            also a text.

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  • Stop_the_madness:

    16 Oct 2008 11:03:10am

    As long as homosexual Australians continue to be denied the right to marry in the same way as any other Australian couple, I will continue to feel ashamed at our inherently discriminatory laws.

    As much as some people like to think that Australians stand for equality and a fair go for all, our unfair treatment of homosexual couples proves that this is not the case.

    Good on you, Justice Kirby, for continuing to highlight this poor state of affairs.

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      • Jan:

        16 Oct 2008 11:27:42am

        There are many issues in society that need addressing, but 'marriage' isn't one of them, other than that it should have nothing whatsoever to do with governments.

        We don't need more rules, but less.

        There should be no reason why people can't have as many partners as they want, and all at once if they want, of any gender, or an animal if they want.

        So please stop carping about the 'right to marry' as though the government should have any say in it at all.

        If people want a religious marriage, then that is up to their religion. If the religion won't allow you, then start your own. I don't care a bit.

        However, if you want to have your relationship recognised for legal reasons, then sorry, but just like a dog or car or permission to be a doctor, we will all need to be registered. Whatever the partnership. There is nothing demeaning in this at all, and it is totally flexible.

        In particular, people should be able to have a relationship with their sibling, parent, or whatever (provided everyone is over age and competent to decide) as it is just nobody's business.

        Having children though, that is a different matter - and I do think it is time parents need to register an intent to produce a child before they are allowed to start an offspring. And if they don't, it be a serious and punishable breach for the sake of that child.

        So please, stop talking nonsense about 'gay marriage' and just do your thing. In case you haven't noticed, 'marriage' is on the way out and the likely outcome is that it will relate ONLY to homosexual unions quite soon after you force the legislation through.

        Next thing you will be demanding the right not to be forced to get married...

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          • Roy:

            16 Oct 2008 11:59:32am

            Your vision of the future seems a long way off. How about focusing on the first step - removing discrimination from our legislation.

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      • Jon:

        16 Oct 2008 11:45:57am

        The essential aims of marriage are procreation, spiritual union and long-term social stability

        Homosexual couples cannot procreate, have no spiritual union and are inherently many times more instable than heterosexual couples.

        Therefore marriage is not a state homosexual couples can aspire to and any change to the laws of marriage and even the establishment of civil unions is merely a legal fantasy on the level of "Terra Nullius".

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          • excantare:

            16 Oct 2008 12:19:51pm

            What about heterosexual marriages where one or both of the partners are infertile? Are they a "legal fantasy"?

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          • Roy:

            16 Oct 2008 12:24:06pm

            "The essential aims of marriage are procreation, spiritual union and long-term social stability"

            1. Marriage has nothing to do with procreation (sorry to tell you, but it is actually possible to get pregnant without being married). There is also more to raising a child than having boy-on-girl sex - and everything else can indeed be done by any sort of couple.

            2. Only boys and girls have spiritual unions?????

            3. I'd like to see your evidence that heterosexual couples are "inherently" (???) more stable than other couples. How many couples of each kind do you know? How stable are they, really?

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          • Green:

            16 Oct 2008 1:10:56pm

            As someone who is in a heterosexual marriage, I can assure you that the purpose of marriage is not to procreate - it is a sign of commitment to another person, evidenced in a legal (and for most of us, secular) form. Whether or not people choose to procreate is an entirely separate matter (and one that frankly doesn't bear much correlation to whether or not you are married).

            I'm tired of people with religious beliefs attempting to hijack marriage and claim that is a religious rather than a secular rite. Of the weddings I've been to recently (including my own) most vehemently sought to maintain a completely secular ceremony.

            Marriage is a secular rite. As such, it is ludicrous to suggest that there is any merit in excluding homosexuals from being able to be married.

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          • Zac:

            16 Oct 2008 1:16:38pm

            It's more than evident that you harbour tremendous fear and misunderstanding. It's quite startling actually, considering the year now is 2008! Our social stability arises from addressing our fears, dogmas, prejudices and hatreds in regards to a number of social issues.
            It's apparent that you're a victim of religious dogma. It's apparent that you're struggling with a multitude of things, namely the fact that gays are just like anyone else! Why do you have such a problem in accepting this? I pity you're blinkered and hateful state, and I hope that you shall be rehabilitated at some stage...

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      • Braz:

        16 Oct 2008 1:15:22pm

        Move to Holland then.

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          • Zac:

            16 Oct 2008 1:36:49pm

            Haha.. If only we could consider ourselves in the same league as the Dutch! We have a long way to go yet!

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  • David Ferstat:

    16 Oct 2008 11:08:34am

    What disappoints me (I wish I could say "surprises me") about this is that it should still be necessary for Justice Kirby to say things like this.

    Rudd's ascension last year made me hope that we could at last move past Howard's Australia of the 1950's. Alas, it was not to be, with Rudd announcing that, "as a Christian" he was opposed to homosexual marriage.

    Mind you, with the Oath of Office for the Prime Minister of Australia being as skimpy as it is, there's no requirement on the PM to anything he doesn't like, really.

    Here's the Oath:

    "I, Kevin Michael Rudd, do swear that I will well and truly serve the Commonwealth of Australia, her land and her people in the office of Prime Minister."

    (See original here:
    http://www.gg.gov.au/governorgeneral/news.php?action=view&id=190)

    What I have always failed to see is how allowing homosexuals to marry hurts anyone. It's clear that it helps some people, but if none are harmed, how does society benefit from the ban?

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  • Michael:

    16 Oct 2008 11:14:49am

    Hang on - no-one is being prevented from doing anything! Gays and lesbians are free to love and live together. How is this discriminatory?
    What is being requested here is the societal sanctioning of their committed relationships. There is a reason why society sanctions heterosexual marriage - it promotes peace in the community and provides the next generation. While there may well be good reasons for society to sanction non-heterosexual unions, nobody here has even attempted to make a supporting argument.
    Why do the g & l community think that stamping their feet and making demands will achieve their goals?

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      • Lucky:

        16 Oct 2008 11:37:10am

        Gays are part of the community that you mention, and gays can have children too.. (if that's what they really want, it's definitely possible- hence another generation being conceived, albeit by gays!)

        The reasons that you've listed are the reasons that I want to list too.. Promoting peace in the community, and even providing the next generation! We simply want what you have and take for granted! Simply simply simply simply!!!!!!!!!

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      • Daniel:

        16 Oct 2008 11:46:18am

        Call it "sanctioning" if you like, but the point is simply to remove any discrimination or differentiation in law between persons on the basis of their sexual orientation. It means saying that society sees one form of union as no better or worse, no more or less valid, than the other. I would have thought that eliminating discrimination is reason enough for changing these laws; why does there need to be some additional "benefit" to society?

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      • Roy:

        16 Oct 2008 11:51:14am

        You ask why society should sanction non-heterosexual unions? One reason is that to do otherwise would be discriminatory. Alternatively, why shouldn't it?

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      • Zac:

        16 Oct 2008 11:54:25am

        .."There is a reason why society sanctions heterosexual marriage - it promotes peace in the community and provides the next generation. "

        Some gays simply want to have EXACTLY this, Michael! They are part of the community at large. They're not asking for anything more than what anyone else can have! In terms of reproduction, gays can too.. u know! I have to laugh a bit though.. Marriage promoting peace in the community! LOL. We all know so many people that have had bad marriages.. Shocking marriages, even! The divorce rating sitting where it does makes me think that marriage is really unnatural. That's simply my view, though.. I wouldn't wish it on anyone!

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      • Roy:

        16 Oct 2008 11:57:12am

        Also, you are deluded if you think it is just the "g & l community" who are unhappy about this discrimination.

        What does "g & l community" mean, anyway? Someone who isn't heterosexual? Someone who knows someone who's homosexual? Someone who is opposed to homophobia? Someone who believes Australian law shouldn't discriminate on the basis of sexuality? I think you'll find that "community" is a lot larger than you might expect.

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      • John:

        16 Oct 2008 12:09:17pm

        Extending the institution of marriage to same sex couples would also promote "peace in the community" in the same way as it does for opposite sex couples.

        Promoting stable, life long relationships is not just about procreation - the support that same sex couples give each other throughout their life (both financial and moral) undoubtedly has societal benefits. The state, and the community has a direct interest in promoting these relationships among both same sex and opposite sex couples.

        I think there would be value in extending the debate beyond the traditional "rights" arguments to one where the potential benefits to society are discussed in greater detail.

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      • dean:

        16 Oct 2008 12:20:16pm

        Marriage is not required to provide a future generation, nor do I think it is a necessary force for promoting peace in society. The nature of your rhetoric shows little understanding of the frustration faced by same sex couples to be legally recognized in Australia.

        Your words "stamping their feet and making demands' attempt to draw parallels between the actions of the gay and lesbian community and the behaviour of children. These are the kind of loaded comments that are not beneficial to this debate.

        The word "marriage" should be removed from this debate. A legal recognition of same sex relationships is necessary in order to provide same sex couples with the same opportunities and rights that are currently enjoyed by Heterosexual Australians.

        If people think that gay people are making a mockery of marriage, I suggest they take a look at who is filling up the divorce courts.

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  • tonyg:

    16 Oct 2008 11:21:46am

    There are two separate issues here.

    The right to civil union with all the pros and cons is essential. It both protects and lays obligations on both parties.

    Marriage as a sacrament is a religious issue which is beyond the bounds of Government. If a protest or change of law can change the "sinfulness" status of something, then the ethics of the religion are pretty soft. Shades of "Moses and the 10 Suggestions".

    Let's get the civil union component right, with all the balance and fairness a modern civilised liberal nation can muster.

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      • Roy:

        16 Oct 2008 11:49:36am

        If marriage is only a "religious issue", as you put it, it should not be a part of our law.

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      • Roy:

        16 Oct 2008 11:54:24am

        Also, Australian law does not change the "sinfulness status" of anything, if there is such a thing, as "sinfulness status" is a religious issue, not a legal issue! Am I missing something here?

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      • John:

        16 Oct 2008 12:12:01pm

        I disagree - Justice Kirby made the point that civil unions are essentially the same as registering your dog or getting a busking license.

        Religious institutions are free to sanction, or not sanction marriages depending on their view. Many denominations will not sanction amrriages between those who have been divroced or those from other religions, or indeed those in same sex relationships. That is their right. Marriage is a state sanctioned institution, and should be extended to all couples, regardless of the gender of the parties.

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          • amme:

            16 Oct 2008 1:27:25pm

            Marriage is a recognised legal state not a religious one. i have been married twice, once in a church when i was very young (religously sactioned) and it was a horrible violent and abusive marriage that i fled to save my life and the lives of my children. My second marriage was in a registry office and it was a legal and binding marriage for all intents and purposes. I am now in a same sex relationship and i am left with NO options in terms of making my committment legal and valid. I agree with Justice Kirby 100%, having same sex relationships recognised as legal by the government is not a religious matter, its a social one, i want to leave my partner our house and my super and i want to share health care benefits, if we were to share a child, i would want to have the right to share care of that child if the relationship was to fail for some reason etc and as the law stands at the moment, i cant. And for the record, i don't care what you choose to call it, marriage, civil union etc, if all Australians cannot access it, its discrimatory (and just as useless as the anti discrimination law that the government can turn off and on at will for some members of the Australian population).

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      • Sabine Elvy:

        16 Oct 2008 12:15:55pm

        Tony G, why should marriage be a religious issue? Many aspects of life which were previously confined to the private sphere have been legislated on by Government - the Family Law Act for instance. Marriage is something that the majority of people in society hope they will oneday experience - it is not a ritual that only the religious practice exclusively behind the closed doors of the churches. If marriage affects the rights and responsibilities of people nationwide, religious or otherwise, then the government is a more appropriate entity (than the church) to govern the rules of marriage as it reflects a wider array of interests, as an elected representative body, than does the church. There is no reason why gays should not be accorded rights and their interests taken into account - I agree with David Ferstat that gay marriage poses no harm to the community.

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  • Lucky:

    16 Oct 2008 11:31:12am

    Live and let live.. without fear of persecution! Make some gay friends, and you'll all see that they're as human and as flawed as anyone.. (well, almost!) Go on, make some gay friends, and you'll def. be educated on design, decoration, style and FUN! Go on, make some gay friends, and have a BALL!

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      • Roy:

        16 Oct 2008 12:29:43pm

        I'd go a step further. How many of your colleagues, friends, acquaintances, etc, do you really know are heterosexual? You might be surprised. Gay people are everywhere :)

        And no, they don't all ride motorbikes, or love fashion, or have short hair or speak differently - just like not all heterosexual people love cricket, or brad pitt, or pineapple.

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          • Zac:

            16 Oct 2008 12:45:18pm

            Ofcourse Roy, I'd say that the above article is just celebrating the stereotypes. We should all celebrate these, yet understand that there is alot more to it all than simply stereotypes!

            :)

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  • Matthew Brown:

    16 Oct 2008 11:34:38am

    Personally I don't agree with allowing same sex marriages....yet. I think there is a lot more important aspects of law which need to be corrected first and total removal of any discrimination and the full recognition of same sex unions first. And from there, the allowing of same sex couples to marry should come from the federal government and be lawful throughout the country so that we do not see the same issues in the US where one state allows it and not the other.

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  • Sabine:

    16 Oct 2008 11:43:35am

    As lawmakers, judges find themselves in a very unique position of privilege and power. Once appointed, judges are free to act and make decisions independently from the executive arm of government, and without the influence of 'blood, guns and money' (as Michael Kirby put it on Tuesday at the ANU).

    Michael Kirby is a fine example of a judge who has not been afraid to depart from precedent where he considers that the law is in serious need of reform. The judge has consistently decided cases before him with several questions in mind: will we, in twenty or thirty years from now, look back to the present day and say that the courts acted fairly towards its citizens and non-citizens? That the lawmakers respected and valued the place in society of the Aboriginal people, of women, of gays, and of immigrants? Or will we wonder at the backwardness of our legal system - in a so-called modern country.

    This is a man who has acted in a position of power with a clean conscience. His background is interesting in that he is the only High Court judge to have gone through the public schooling system. His exposure to minority groups as a result of his upbringing leads me to hope that more diversity will someday find its way to the Bench to lift the heavy weight of conservatism that is the current flavour of majority judgments. It would be great to see more dissenting opinions that show that Judges are properly debating the issues before them.

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  • John:

    16 Oct 2008 11:48:29am

    When will you people get it?
    Marriage, by definition, is a union, recognised by law, between a man and a woman.
    All this on going reteric is an attempt to change a long-standing definition.
    Most people in Australia don't care if you are gay, or live with your gay partner or have a gay lifestyle.
    Get over the PR stunts. If you don't like civil union ceremonies or whatever, create a new name for them. Just not marriage.
    Find another word. "Marriage" is no more "gay" than black is white or up is down.
    I'd really love to see a "straight and single" mardi-gras. Let's celebrate "not being gay". Why? Purely cause I'm tired of everything "gay" being barked through the media.
    If you are gay and proud - good for you! May you find happiness in all your days. Just stop bashing everyone with it.

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      • excantare:

        16 Oct 2008 12:28:56pm

        Uh, who's "bashing people with it"? Yes, the word marriage may be considered misleading here, but it's being used in this article to denote a recognised state-sanctioned union with legal status. *That's* what's at stake. And the fact that same-sex couples are not afforded this basic right, and that some (like Jon) on this forum seek to deny them that *is* evidence that there is a need to fight for equal recognition of relationships.

        Plus, how can it be a "PR stunt" when Kirby, as a gay rights activist AND a laywer, is only commenting on a bill currently before the Senate.

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      • Christian:

        16 Oct 2008 12:57:31pm

        When will you get it John. We have found another word

        WE DON'T WANT MARRIAGE!

        We want "Civil Union", we want equal rights!

        Stop bashing us with your nonchalant distaste for our movement to achieve the same status as you enjoy if you marry.

        That is why we try to keep the issue current. That is why there is Mardi Gras. Because the fight goes on. Belligerants like you fill Parliament and until they budge and give us what we want (EQUALITY) The fight wil continue.

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          • Aaron:

            16 Oct 2008 1:27:59pm

            Christian,
            you speak for a noisy minority among a noisy minority. Many gays do want to get married. However I do give you credit for clarifying your own position.

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      • ferris:

        16 Oct 2008 1:16:40pm

        the definition by law was created in 2004 to state
        "Marriage means the union of a man and a woman to the exclusion of all others, voluntarily entered into for life."
        It is offensive to many that there is now a requirement in the ceremony to state this. One way to appease this is by saying "Marriage, according to the current Marriage Act of 1961 in Australia must state the following words for this marriage to be legal...
        Hardly a romantic gesture in the middle of a ceremony but the act is so obviously discriminatory with its "exclusion of all others". Why not just say "exclusion of all homosexuals".....


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  • luke weyland :

    16 Oct 2008 11:57:57am

    As a happily married straight bloke with 6 kids, I know my relationship with my wife will remain as strong whether or not gays get equal rights. All the talk by Labor respecting equal rights for Gays is a load of rubbish. Labor continues to oppose the rights of Gays to have their relationships legally recognised as marriage.

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  • AlanM:

    16 Oct 2008 12:01:30pm

    Perhaps we should clearly differentiate between marriage under law and marriage under religion. Churches no longer have a monopoly over marriage under law and so why should they have a say over who can and can't me married under law?

    As far as I'm concerned, I don't care what the churches decide marriage under religion is or is not. As long as marriage under law becomes discrimination free then that's good enough for me. When many (most perhaps?) heterosexual couples don't involve religion with their marriage, why can't we simply not involve religion when homosexual marriage is involved?

    I'm an atheist in a secular society so from my point of view the religious position on homosexuality is completely irrelevant.

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  • Eros Summer:

    16 Oct 2008 12:05:12pm

    Kevin Rudd has decided to throw Gay Marriage into the bin because he's a Christian. As a leader he should not decide on a policy based on his own personal belief. He's representing Australians of many backgrounds.

    What if a non-Christian Australian leader denied a policy that Christians always practice? Is it all right to deny the rights of others because we don't believe in a particular practice?

    Whether homosexuality is natural or not, a homosexual person should be able to decide on what is best for him/her. I certainly don't believe in any religion, but why my life activities must be conformed to Christianity?

    Australia is a secular nation, not a Christian state! Democracy is aimed to protect the minorities regardless of sexualities, religions, culture and ethnicities. Denying anyone to marry a person he/she loves is like denying Rudd from learning and speaking Mandarin.

    At times, I can see that the lines that divide Liberal and Labor parties are becoming painfully blurry, soon they will merge to become a single party.

    We need another alternative party that views a policy in more enlightened way than these so called "traditional" parties.

    It's a joke and beyond my comprehension!

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  • R Cembrano:

    16 Oct 2008 12:44:22pm

    The so-called intellectuals in our society are bereft of basic moral values. Error or evil has no rights.

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      • Zac:

        16 Oct 2008 1:28:08pm

        So, what are you saying exactly? Elaborate a little more... ? Intellectuals, as in legislators.. or intellectuals as in reformers?

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